Hearts are Fragile people must begin to understand this fact! Especially in relationships with the opposite sex! You can lose your money, your Job, possessions and even a house. It will hurt, but not as much as it would hurt when the one you dearly Love injures you!

When you fall in Love! Part of your Job description is to watchfully care and protect your man’s or woman’s heart, because a heart Neglected suffers great pain. Let me first explain exactly what the human heart does, We all know that our heart is a vital organ and heart health and well being is held in high regard by all! Nowadays, the quest for how to keep your heart healthy has taken serious proportions, what exactly is the function of the heart? What does it do for our bodies that give it such importance and high rank among all other organs? Well, the heart is primarily an organic pump, made up of muscles. It pumps blood to all parts of the body, ensuring all parts and organs receive adequate amount of oxygen, nourishment and other necessary enzymes that are carried by blood.

Your Partner’s heart does almost the same to you! Have u ever seen a man or woman in Love they Glow they are not malnourished! When a heart emits true Love! The level of healthy and mental soundness is unexplainable. Levels of productivity at the office, school, and business place increases. Even the way someone walks changes! If it’s your lucky day ask a woman or man in Love and glowing for some cash! She will give you a blank cheque baby!

Sadly enough as a Relationship Coach I encounter so many none glowing hearts these days and it’s painful for me as I counsel the victims of unprotected Hearts!

Let me ask you these questions?

• If your partner picked up your phone and went through your txts will their hearts be safe?
• If your partner went through your facebook & emails will they be safe?
• If they checked your wallets and handbags how safe are they?
• If your partner showed up unannounced at your house is their heart gonna be safe or somebody is gonna be calling 911?
• If your partner got hold of your pay slips, how safe are they?
• If we played them a video of your past, how safe is your closet?
• If they came through to your office to surprise you! Will they succeed or you will surprise them
• How about if they came along with you for that office cocktail! What will be their experience?

We live in a ME driven generation, where if it makes me happy to hell with everybody, people care less about their loved one, their feelings, and their emotional health. There is a high level of carelessness in relationships! We take advantage of the ones we claim to Love.

We abuse their hearts and still claim to Love them! We will sleep around and have affairs without caring about the Precious heart! Your partner is not safe enough to be themselves list you wound their hearts! We habitually tell lies day in day out…

Am I suggesting that you should go round checking out your partner? The point am driving at is that even if your partner will never police you by checking your txts, emails, handbags, wallets and visiting unexpectedly! Their safety must be guaranteed! I know people who tell their partners before you come to my house or office you must let me know in advance! How? if your partner is your best friend they are entitled to all the secrets and happening of your Life!

LADIES! Your man has got and ego, popularly known as the MALE EGO! Protect it, because that male ego is tied to his heart! Mess his ego! You mess with his Heart! He is vulnerable!

GENTLEMEN! That woman is ROYALTY! Lavish her 24/7 she just doesn’t get enough of it! Remember admiration and sweet nothings, are tied to her heart! You mess with that, you mess with her HEART!

May I admonish you! Remember your man or woman is entrusted in your care, for safe keeping by God! Will you choose to honor that? Show yourself as a worthy steward of your partner’s heart before God and man!

If you have enjoyed reading and would like to benefit from our services? We offer Premarital Counseling, marriage disputes and any relationships difficulties. And you can Listen to my Radio Shows on ZNBC Radio 2 95.7 Sunday 20:45hrs & Wednesday  18:15hrs and on ZNBC  TV Smooth Talk  every other week on a Segment called Love Strokes on Fridays @ 22:15 & Thursday 13hrs (Repeat)

God bless you!

Stay @ your Game!

Coach Steady Divine

Steady divine Phiri is a Trainer, Life and Relationship Coach, Leadership Strategist, Pastor, Entrepreneur, and a Radio/T.V Writer and Host. He is C.E.O of Icon Management solution and Afro Gospel, he is also the founding President of Motivated Generational International and Life Makeover Ministries. His passion and Life mission is “Helping People Find Their Purpose! Motivating and Equipping Them to Achieve It”

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